Signs that I need healing:
 1). I fear pain.
 2). I am given to addictions (food, drugs, medicines, sex, pornography, shopping, hoarding, etc.)
 3). I tend to be very stubborn and defensive (because I can’t afford to be seen as wrong)
 4). I give up easily.
 5.) I am a perfectionist
 5). I live a life sold out for something other than God
 6). I am completely surrendered—I have no hope. I secretly know that nothing good will ever really happens to me. Even everything that looks good will turn bad.
 7). I am driven.
8.) Shame is my default emotion.
9.) Anger is my default emotion.
10.) I am mentally tormented or confused
11.) I am a procrastinator
12.) I am indecisive
13.) I am unable to stand up for myself
14.) I compromise my morals and values
15.) I am prone to doubt or rationalization
16) I have speech problems
17.) I am physically ill
18.) I fear rejection or I have a pattern of rejecting others
19.) I am depressed
20.) I spend a great deal of energy protecting myself
21.) I feel inferior
22.) I am resentful
23.) I am obsessed with someone or something
24.) I don’t know how to be happy or joyful
25.) I don’t know how to be content
26.) My wounds are my identity
27.) I feel hopeless (see below)
28.) I am a worrier
29.) Fear controls my decision making
30.) I live in Doomsland/victimhood
31.) I am overcome by Grief
32.) I experience curses in my life
33.) I wear a mask (I lie, hide, pretend. I am afraid to be real.)
34.) I’ve experienced trauma
35.) I have codependent relationships (relationship where one person is a caretaker and the other person takes advantage)
Hopelessness
  1. feeling alienated, feeling different, feeling like an outsider
  2. feeling forsaken or abandoned
  3. feeling uninspired, just taking life as it comes
  4. feeling powerless—you do not have enough strength to navigate where you need to go.
  5. feeling oppressed— crushed by circumstances
  6. feeling limited—not having enough resources
  7. feeling doomed
  8. feeling captive—feel like you are in a prison; a lot of time we place ourselves in prison based on curses we believed (see *******)
  9. feeling exposed to trauma through uncontrollable circumstances